I've just emailed a dear sister who has returned to Japan to find many 'hard to bear circumstances':

hi sis
Just been praying for you.

Romans 8v28 is always true and needs impressing into our subconsciousness. Do you know it? Not just the verse, but the truth of which it speaks.

You are facing great difficulties at this moment and we feel for you very much. I wish I could be there and we could chat with an open bible and encourage one another with eternal truth about our eternal God. Email will have to do!

"God works all things together for good" for his children because God presses them into His service. God uses every event of his childrens' lives for their good. The events that seem so destructive and destabilising are not free to do as they please. Random forces are not at work here. Satan and his evil work are not even free to do as he pleases.
"God makes evil backfire and makes satan continually shoot himself in the foot because when satan intends something for the harm of God's saints, God's intention is to ultimately benefit them. This is amazing wisdom to praise God for! ".
God, our father will take these events and circumstances and sanctify them to us! Bless them use them they must submit to his good and sovereign hand to serve him and fulfill his purpose. And what his is purpose for us? What does God want for Haruna? Your eternal good. To make you like Jesus! And nothing NOTHING can ever stop him accomplishing that. In fact everything ("ALL THINGS"- Rom 8v28) is used by him to get what he wants. He doesn't waste any of our bad times or failures.

Please keep us informed about your life's events and heart feelings. Remember it is the response to events that is the key thing. Learn gratitude, as I can see you are already expressing. So keep on keeping on. We are right there with you!